Getting into the Swing of Things—Swingers Rules 101

Houston Swinging 101Swingers are people, single or in a relationship, who enjoy adding one or more people into their sexy time. For a long time, this was considered “taboo” but in recent years it’s blown up with the newer generations really embracing the Free love movement. We can thank them for allowing us to be open and known in our communities. It’s been an amazing adventure that we would love to share with those interested in our way of life. So come along with us for the journey through the Houston Swinging scene.

Include Your Partner

This is extremely important for the sake of your partnership. It’s never any fun when someone is forced into a scene they don’t want to be in. Make sure they’re actually interested and willing to go on this adventure with you. Bring up the topic slowly and be as sensitive as possible about it. We, as human beings, tend to respond well to sensitivity and understanding. This means that if your partner agrees to try it out and then doesn’t like it, being calm and patient, they may find themselves fantasizing over time and decide to give it another go.

Be sure to reassure them often that you are in a committed relationship and your loyalty lies with them. You should keep your line of communication open at all times and be able to freely voice what is on your mind without fear of repercussion. Overall, be confident and have fun!

Swinging 101 Tip: Start With a Threesome

Starting off on the safe side, choose a mutual third party to join in on the sexy fun. Get a little bit of liquid courage and throw a new sexy third wheel in the mix and make her (or him!) the center of attention! This will make them feel wanted and come back for more. Make sure to also show affection to your partner, remember, this takes a lot for them!

Moving on steadily to the foursomes and group orgies, after you’re ready to go all-in, throw out all reservations and move forward on trust and passion. The more the merrier and trust me, the is no merrier place on earth and a bed full of sexy people emitting hormones and oozing sexual pleasure. Bring on the kinky sex play and girls from hell to breakfast! We’re ready and so are you! Think of the places you can go! We’ll help you find it and maybe even go along for the ride!

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